Now is the Time for a Better You!

Stop Putting It Off Until Tomorrow

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Today is yesterday’s tomorrow. Stop putting it off until tomorrow! If you’ve ever held off on an opportunity to improve the day for someone, including yourself, today is your day. The world needs you and your positive influence. When it comes to making a positive impact, one of the questions most often asked is “How?”. Here are five relatively simple approaches that I’m hopeful make the world around you just a bit brighter. 


  1. Practice awareness and empathy – Emotional intelligence. Basically, it’s a matter of paying close attention to the emotional impact that your words and actions have on others and adjusting them accordingly to bring about the best possible result. The trick is often to stop long enough to think through what’s happening around you. When you ask someone how they are doing, stop long enough to hear the answer. 
  2. Encourage toward growth – Personal growth can be tough. But often, a clear word of encouragement can make the difference between someone stepping up to the challenge and backing away from it. It’s amazing the difference it can make when there is someone in your corner who truly wants the best for you. Be that person. 

  3. Challenge yourself to do something that will stretch your ability – Generally people enjoy comfort…the comfort of what’s normal for them. There is nothing inherently wrong with this but the decision to push past that comfort and do the things that expand your capability often leads to greater opportunity. That willingness is often the difference between mediocre and incredible results. Your dream is not going to wait for you.  Chase it down like the squirrel on the movie Ice Age chases the acorn! You are always stronger and more capable than you realize.

  4. Make the decision - There are some days when you simply have to wake up and decide that you’re going to take steps to improve your circumstances. That means deciding to get and stay healthy, develop a positive attitude and treat others right. It’s a matter of realizing that today is a gift and shouldn’t be taken for granted. Realizing that you do have power to succeed in life.

  5. Stay grateful – Gratitude is powerful medicine. And there are plenty of times when I need to remind myself to take it. By taking stock not in what I’m missing but all of the blessings that are in front of me. Even when it doesn’t seem to be the case, we all have much to be thankful for. Feel your chest rise and fall? Thank God for that. Make a gratitude list and refer to it regularly.
Brian Wallace • February 2, 2022
By Brian Wallace April 29, 2026
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By Brian Wallace April 29, 2026
Let’s address the uncomfortable truth: Most leaders already know what they should be doing. They just don’t do it consistently. Not because they’re incapable - but because something is working against them. What’s Really Holding Leaders Back? It’s not a lack of awareness. It’s a combination of three forces that quietly shape behavior: 1. Success Has Trained Them to Stay the Same Leaders are promoted because they deliver results. So they double down on what got them there: solving problems themselves moving quickly by making decisions solo stepping in when things go sideways The problem? Those behaviors don’t scale. But letting go of them feels risky. So they don’t. 2. Short-Term Pressure Overrides Long-Term Discipline In theory, leaders know they should: coach instead of direct develop instead of fix empower instead of control But in reality? Deadlines hit. Clients escalate. Revenue matters. So they revert to speed and control because it’s faster right now. And just like that, long-term leadership development loses to short-term execution pressure. 3. The Organization Quietly Rewards the Wrong Behavior Watch closely and you’ll see it - the leader who “jumps in and saves the day” gets praised. Or the leader who builds a self-sufficient team gets overlooked. Or perhaps the leader who avoids conflict keeps the peace and avoids backlash. Organizations say they want leadership excellence. But their reward systems often reinforce the opposite. Why This Matters More Than You Think When leaders don’t change: their teams don’t grow decision-making stays centralized innovation slows burnout increases at the top And eventually, the business hits a ceiling that no strategy can fix. The Real Work of Leadership Development If you want leaders to change, you have to change the environment around them. That means: redefining what “good leadership” looks like aligning incentives with the behaviors you want creating consequences for avoiding leadership responsibilities Because people don’t rise to expectations. They rise to what the system reinforces .
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